Should we be blaming each other?

A couple of months ago I broke up with a guy who I have been going out with since before I joined London escorts. It was a real shame as he was such a nice persona and was tolerant of me working for London escorts. Most of the guys have a really hard time adjusting to us girls here at London escorts, but this guy was the exception. He did not seem to be mind at all, and was happy me for me to do what I enjoyed doing.

The only thing that sort of scuttled us was the night shift at London escorts. He kept blaming me for working the night shift. Working the night shift is just something you do at London escorts. All of the girls that I work with do the night at our London escorts. Not only is a good earnings opportunity but at the same it is only fair that we all do it. It is just like any other job really. There is no way that you are going to get away with not sharing your professional responsibilities with your colleagues.

Anyway, after a couple of months, he said that he had enough of me working the night shift a couple of times per month at London escorts. I told him that I needed to do so and it said in my contract that I had to do so. After all, if I had been a nurse, I would probably had to work the night shift at the hospital. Would it really been that much of a difference at the end of the day? Also, I rather enjoyed working the night shift as it gave me some time to myself the next day. No matter what I said, he could not see my point and it was just like he started to hate me.

I did not want to row with him, but I did tell him that things were not going to change. He either had to put up with it or pack his bags. In the end, he left blaming me for ending our relationship. I know that I am not the only girl at London escorts to have been in this situation. Most of my friends at the London escort service that I work for have gone through a similar case scenario. It is not nice but the truth is that relationship breakups happen all of the time and you have to learn with them.

But do we ever learn anything from our relationship break ups or do we keep repeating the same pattern time and time again? Well, we certainly do not learn how to not blame each other. Some people seem to blame others because they simply did not listen. Personally I blame my ex boyfriend for not understanding and he blames me for not saying no to the night shift at London escorts. We should really aim towards meeting in the middle, but most of the time, it is easier said than done. Perhaps we are all a bit too busy standing up for ourselves and blaming each other. If we could change that, maybe there would be a lot of fewer divorces in the world.